Meditation: A Simple Guide

Guest Written by Sarah Frick
While the exact origins of meditation are unknown, many believe it’s been around for over 5,000 years. Meditation is the act of focusing or thinking deeply for a period of time. Some people meditate in silence and others speak or chant. Over all, as long as meditation encompasses focusing or thinking deeply, there is really no wrong way to do it. Many people like to set the mood with a quiet setting. The effect meditation can have on people varies depending on the person or type of meditation. However, some of the most common uses for meditation are to ease stress, anxiety, and sleeplessness.

Stress plagues many Americans, and meditation is one of the healthiest ways for people to relieve stress. Stress is emotional or mental strain that can be caused by work, relationships, school, and so many other things. Specifically, work stress can be brutal. My friend, Bob, is a lawyer and works for a foreclosure law firm. The firm is not doing well because the housing market is back up. The firm has laid off many people, and as a result, Bob has to do the work of three attorneys. Regardless of the extra work, the firm still expects the work to be completed in a timely fashion. This has caused Bob’s stress levels to rise. Choosing a type of meditation called Mantra Meditation is a way that he relieves his stress. Mantra Meditation is when you silently repeat calming words, thoughts, or phrases to prevent distracting thoughts. Bob can take five minutes at his desk to help reduce stress to deal with a difficult situation.
Relieving stress isn’t the only positive effect meditation can have for people; meditation can also reduce anxiety. Anxiety refers to extreme fear or worry and is a medical illness that plagues millions of American. Anxiety is a general term that includes but is not limited to anxiety attacks, panic attacks, phobias, and social anxiety. I should give a disclaimer that I am not in any way implying that meditation can replaced the need for medication to treat anxiety. Anxiety is an illness, and if someone is suffering from anxiety, they should be seen by a medical professional. However, meditation can relieve some the symptoms of anxiety. One type of meditation that helps people with anxiety is called Zen Meditation. This type of meditation is done when a person sits or kneels in a Buddha-like position and they breathe smoothly, which slows down the mind and helps encourage good feelings. With anxiety being such a common problem in America today, knowing ways to relieve anxiety is vital.

One of the effects of stress and anxiety is sleeplessness. So many people lie in bed watching the clock tic, but when they close their eyes their mind runs wild. Not getting proper sleep for one night can cause lethargy for a full week. It is vital that everyone gets at least 5 hours of sleep per night. However, whether they’re thinking about work, family, friends, or one of the many ways people over extend themselves, many find themselves turning to over the counter sleep aids. Thankfully, it not necessarily needed. Before grabbing the bottle, it might be worth trying mediation. The type of meditation that can be very helpful for sleeplessness is guided imagery. Guided Imagery is a type of meditation where a guide leads through a series of visualizations. According to urbanwired.com, “It is essentially induced dreaming or daydreaming and it enables the subconscious to express itself while one is actually awake. The practitioner imagines a soothing environment, to help him/her relax, and may project elements causing pain, stress and anger in his/her real life on to the environment. In order to resolve issues in a safe, non-conflictual zone, guided imagery is ideal. One can practice this without a guide once one gets accustomed.” Many people I know have found this method essential to falling asleep at night.

The practice of meditation has been used for centuries. As a kid, I remember my dad using meditation to help my brothers and I feel asleep many times. I have only touched on a few types of meditation. With a quick google search, many different ways that meditation can be done and how it can improve quality of life can be found. Also, applications on phones and tablets can be tremendously helpful. They often feature guides and information that can get you started with ease. Many of these applications are free.

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Golf Courses: 5 of Michigan’s Best Courses

I love golfing. It is challenging, frustrating, and rarely rewarding. Some of my best memories are playing atrocious golf with awesome friends. Below are 5 of Michigan’s best golf courses that are not outrageously priced.

Apple Mountain Golf Course

Located near Saginaw, it is reasonably priced and beautiful to look at. Due to it being a ski resort in the winter, it has amazing elevation changes and eye popping views, you will be thoroughly challenged.

Fall Rate is only $42

Boulder Pointe

I just recently played this course. It’s in extremely good condition, it has beautiful views, and it is not crazy difficult. It is not overly long, and has large fairways and greens. The biggest challenge is, depending on the side you play, is the amount of water on the course. If you aren’t hitting your irons precise, be prepared to lose plenty of balls.

Current Rate $40 – But it’s consistently on Golfnow with HotDeals

Lyon Oaks

The layout is fantastic. It feels like a course you find up north but it’s located in Lyon twp. You always see amazing wildlife and amazing views. The course is pretty challenging but well worth checking out.

Summer Rate after 1pm is $52

Northville Hills Golf Course

Okay, I know I’ve said great layout already, but this course in my mind is laid out perfectly. It has many two fairway holes and many strategically placed bunkers. It’s Arnold Palmer signature course and you can definitely tell why.

Summer Rate is $47 before noon on the weekdays

Eagle Crest Resort

This is Eastern Michigan’s Home course and they are lucky to enjoy it. The views from the clubhouse are absolutely stunning. The course is quite challenging with narrow fairways and plenty of water. The truth is, it doesn’t matter how you are playing, just relax and enjoy the views.

$65 on the weekend

Okay, that’s my list of 5 stunning golf courses in Michigan. There are obviously many more but these are the ones I have recently enjoyed. If you have any ideas for golf courses I should check out, add them in the comment section.

Killer Products: The 5 Best Products You Must Own

Okay, so I buy 100’s of products a year from Amazon. Most of them I hardly use but the products below are life altering. Truly lifestyle hacks.

Jack Black Face Moisturizer

This is by far the best morning face moisturizer on the market. It has SPF20, so it protects your skin. Also, it quickly absorbs into your skin, and leaves your skin feeling amazing. Seriously, you should buy this. My skin feels gross without it.

JACK BLACK – Double-Duty Face Moisturizer – SPF 20, Broad-Spectrum Sunscreen, Lasting Hydration, Contains Potent Antioxidants and Vitamins, Organic Ingredients, Cruelty-free and Vegan

Therapy Lamp

I know it sounds weird but I promise you they work wonders. Anyone that lives in areas that goes months without the sun knows how horrible it is. Honestly, 5 minutes a day in front of a therapy lamp and you will be feeling energized!

NatureBright SunTouch Plus Light and Ion Therapy Lamp (package may vary)

GBB Epic – Driver

I bought a new driver last year, and it is awesome. It’s increased my driving distance by over 10 yards and it still crushes the ball on off center shots. Totally worth every penny.

Callaway Golf 2017 Great Big Bertha Men’s Epic Driver, Right Hand, MRC Diamana, 50G, 45.5″ Length, Stiff, 9 Degrees

Headspace

This app is amazing for guided meditation. It makes meditating so easy. Also, the founder Andy Puddicome, has an awesome background story. He was living in London when he was impacted by a major tragedy. Due to this, he decided to travel to India and spent ten years of his life studying to become a fully ordained monk. How cool is that. The app has a monthly fee that unlocks many different guided meditations but you can use the basic meditations for free.

The Headspace Guide to Meditation and Mindfulness: How Mindfulness Can Change Your Life in Ten Minutes a Day

 

Pro-50

This is the best probiotic on the market. It has 13 probiotic strains and 50 Billion Organisms per serving. It works amazing. The first week, when it was healing my gut biome, I had small stomach pains, which was strangely great because I knew it was working.

Vitamin Bounty – Pro 50 Probiotic – 13 Probiotic Strains, 50 Billion Organisms Per Serving

Okay, that’s it. The 5 best products you must buy. I use most of them everyday and so should you. (Except my driver. I wish I could use that everyday.)

Psoriasis Treatment: How I removed my Psoriasis in 60 days

I was 15 years old and to my horror I woke up one morning with red flaky patches on my elbows. At the time, I was mortified. I quickly put on my Doctors hat and scoured the internet to self diagnose myself. The photos that popped up on the internet were terrifying. Photo after photo of amazing people that have been stricken with this horrible disease. I went to the doctors and they diagnosed me with psoriasis. And of course they prescribed me with a psoriasis treatment: oral steroids and steroid creams.

I used their prescribed psoriasis treatment for the next 15 years. It worked, a little, but in my early 30’s my psoriasis started getting worse. It spread to my knees, arms, shins, and scalp. Needless to say, I was stressed out. At that point, I decided I needed to take my psoriasis treatment more serious. I searched psoriasis forums for hours on end looking for a secret weapon to blast away my psoriasis. Now I didn’t find a secret weapon but what I did find, through reading 1000’s of posts, was a common thread for treating psoriasis. Below is what I did to get rid of my psoriasis in 60 days.

I 100% treated my psoriasis through my diet. I ate an extremely strict diet that consisted of the following:

  • Lots of water
  • Daily juicing
  • Fish
  • Broccoli
  • Brown rice

I ate the above everyday for my psoriasis treatment. This was EXTREMELY difficult. Especially for me, whose daily nutrition consisted of fast food and beer. The most challenging part was, I had no idea if it was going to work, but I had faith. In all of my reading, there seemed to be a consistent theme of people healing their psoriasis through healthy eating in 60 days. After 59 days I saw 0 results. It was more than a little demoralizing. But on the 60th day I woke up and 90% of my psoriasis was completely gone. I know it sounds crazy but it’s true. I didn’t see any incremental improvements. It all virtually vanished overnight.

Fast forward 5 years to today, and of course most of my psoriasis is back. I like to eat and drink too much to partake in this regimen permanently, but it is nice to know that I can manage my psoriasis through a healthy diet. In addition, with more reading and research, I have found many articles that reference a possible link to inflammation and psoriasis. With the leading causes for inflammation being leaky gut or candida.

I hope this article can help anyone that is struggling with psoriasis. I can’t promise that everyone will have the same results as I did, with the outlined psoriasis treatment, but I believe eating a healthy diet can go a long ways in fighting this manageable disease.

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Mega Post: Public Speaking Tips

Mega Post: Public Speaking Tips

Everyone hates public speaking. It is the number one fear for the average person. But who wants to be average!?!? These 4 tips will gurantee you kill your next speech.

Tip 1 – Preparation

Seriously, you have to be prepared. Ensure you know your subject matter upside down and backwards.

Tip 2 – Practice

Do a few dry runs with someone you can trust to give you honest feedback. A little practice will go a long ways.

Tip 3 – Perspective

I know it’s very easy to convince yourself that any mistake will be the end of the world but the better thought process is to think of the worse thing that could happen. I think you’ll quickly realize that at the end of the day, the worse scenario isn’t that bad. It could even turn into your favorite story.

Tip 4 – Patience

Okay, everyone gets nervous when public speaking. If you didn’t get nervous, it means you don’t care. But if you are patient with yourself and show yourself empathy you will find you will feel more comfortable each time you do it.

That’s it! Follow the 4 P’s and you are guaranteed to be a master public speaker in no time.

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Craft Beers: The Top 5 List of Craft Beers Brewed in Michigan

Below are the top 5 beers made in Michigan. You can disagree with the list but you would be wrong. And if you feel strongly enough about a different beer, post your thoughts in the comments section and I will dismantle you with straight FACTS.

1) No Rules – Perrin Brewery

Number 1 on the list of craft beers is a vietnamese porter aged in bourbon barrels – whatever that means. It’s sweet, delicious, and STRONG. Drink one bomber and you will be on the floor.

2) M43 – Old Nation

This is a NE style ipa. If you don’t know what that means, stop reading this list. It’s juicy, hoppy, and cloudy. Just how I like it.

3) Flying Buffalo – Griffin Claw

This is a bourbon barrel stout. It has an amazing mouthfeel, with chocolate notes upfront, and finishes with a sweet bourbon taste.

4) The Juice is Loose – Transient Artisan Ales

Another NE style ipa. The east coast style ipa’s are where it’s at. The old school IPAs that are crystal clear are out and for a good reason. They taste boring.

5) Black Note Stout – Bell’s Brewery

This beer barely made the list. It tastes great but so do many bourbon style stouts but I thought at least one beer from the most infamous brewery in michigan should make the list.

Above is hands down the most killer list of craft beers brewed in Michigan. Drink them or die.

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Morning Routine Checklist: 7 killer activities to start your day

Okay, so I am about to share with you life’s biggest secret. I would suggest you put down your remote and stand up because otherwise you may literally explode. That’s how amazing this secret is. Now that I have officially set your expectations so ridiculously high that this article will never be able to live up to the hype, I will get this party started right – quickly!

The first hour and the last hour are the 2 most important hours of the day. They must be carefully planned and artfully implemented. Routines are critical to ensure you have an awesome day and a restful sleep. In this article I’m going to focus on a morning routine checklist you must follow every day to ensure you are your most amazing, productive, self.

Step 1 – Be Grateful

Wake up every morning with some zest for life. LITERALLY! The first thing you should do every morning is say thank you for being alive! Being a little grateful first thing in the morning will start your day with a little pep. Oprah does it.

Step 2 – Drink Water

This is one of the most important steps in your morning routine checklist. When you wake up you are massively dehydrated. Drink a 12 oz glass of water to kick start your metabolism.

Step 3 – Shower

You need to clean yourself up and ensure you are feeling dapper for the day. As the old saying goes, look good – FEEL good.

Step 4 – Meditate

Imagine your mind is a battery and everyday, like your phone, you are replaying old videos of your life, planning your day, or reading ridiculous blogs. Your brain/battery runs out of juice. Meditating for 5 minutes in the morning will recharge that tired old battery and get you ready for an awesome day.

Step 5 – Keep a Grateful Diary

Every morning I quickly jot down 3 things I’m grateful for. It’s quite simple, I open my notepad on my phone and type in 3 things I’m happy about. They don’t have to be overly complicated. I keep it simple, like, my family, my pets, and the sunny day. They don’t always have to be mind shattering ideas. Just something that cheers you up a little.

Step 6 – Drink a Green Smoothie

Everybody needs energy and I know most people use caffeine for a morning kick start. But a smoothie packed full of vitamins will give you more energy and keep your energy levels even through out the day.

Step 7 – A To-Do List

I don’t know about you but once my day starts to get going it can quickly get sidetracked by emails, meetings, and projects. In order to ensure you keep your day on track a to-do list is a must. Additionally, keeping lists, including priorities, is extremely taxing on your most vital resource, your brain. Lists take up a large amount of space in your prefrontal cortex that can be used for many other tasks. That’s why it is so critical to get that list out of your mind and on to a piece of paper.

I promise that if you follow the above morning routine checklist, you will have set the stage for a massively productive day.

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The Best Restaurant List in Metro Detroit: 6 – 10

Okay, it’s been a bit but I’m back.  And I’m adding to my most popular blog post “Top 5 Restaurants of South East Michigan”, which is turning into the top 10 restaurants.  Why have 5 when you can have 10. Are you ready to be entertained?!?!? You better be! !

10) La Dolce Vita

An absolutely immaculate outside eating area.  Truly a place of glorious romance and resplendence. Ivory walls,  flowery walk ways, and ornate archways decorate the decadent dining area.

The food was. .. seriously who cares.  The atmosphere is so intoxicating it doesn’t really matter.  Focus on the ambience and your beautiful significant other.

Yelp elite tip: The bees can get a bit buzzy, so have your server set up a sweet drink at a table away from you to attract them.

9) Wright & Company

Fancy cocktails, eleborate plates, and ornate surroundings set the stage for a sensational evening of magnificent proportions.

Kickback in one of their red, high back booths and be prepared to have your palate dazzled.  I was lucky enough to enjoy an amazing 7 course meal on Valentine’s Day with my fantastic brother and his wife and my beautiful girlfriend. The food and conversation were phenomenonal.

8) The Union Woodshop

I love the way this place is set up.  They have three different bar areas and they are each extremely unique.  We sat at the bourbon bar for most of the evening but we also checked out the upstairs, which I LOVED. It’s really wide open and decorated with a feel of comfort.

The food is amazing. I had the cheese and more cheese sides.  The gloriously cheesey macaroni and the dangerously delicious cheesey potatoes.  The first bite of macaroni smashes your palate with a back hand of cheesy goodness, and the cheesy potatoes follow up with a bruce lee karate chop to your tantalizing taste buds.

Once I rinsed it down with the nectar from the God’s, Hopslam, I decided to dig in for the main course.  I had the woodshop 101. It’s a barbarians barbeque dream. The pulled pork was tender and juicy, the ribs were crispy and amazing, and the chicken, not to be out done, was succulently sensational. I would highly suggest you try this the first time you go.

7) Rock City Eatery

A hipsters haven!! I don’t think you could possibly find a more hipster vibe any where on the planet. It’s so hipster they keep beard oil in the bathrooms. I don’t know if that’s true but I envision it could be.

It recently moved to midtown from Hamtramck and I haven’t had a chance to check it out but judging by the photos it looks to be a nice upgrade.

The food is delicious. It’s kind of a new American / Asian fusion blend.  Overall the food is amazing.  The spicy brussel sprouts are phenomenal.

6) Republic Tavern

The building is awesome. It’s located in the historic Grand Army of Republic building.  The building honestly looks like a castle, which is bad ass.

The food is divine. My girlfriend ordered the carrot salad and it was so overwhelmingly delicious she claimed it was one of the best salads she’s ever had, and she eats a lot of salads.

Just outside the top 5 it is a restaurant that should be sought out and enjoyed. But as LeVar Burton, from the amazing show A Reading Rainbow, would say, but you don’t have take my word for it,  check out the reviews on Yelp.

Deep-Seated Confidence

CONFIDENCE!   It’s commonly talked about but much less commonly achieved. This article is going to provide you a turn key method to feeling biblically amazing most days.  Most of these ideas are not new.  I am only taking the information that I have gleamed from multiple sources, that has worked for me, and sharing them. Please do not take this as gospel, if you’re having severe issues, please consult a medical professional. Without further ado, below is what I have found that will successfully pull you from gloom to BOOM!

1) Look good; feel good

This is an old adage but I promise you it is 100% true. If you’re feeling down and you want to quickly give yourself a boost in the right direction,  get your ass of your couch,  shave, buy a super fly outfit,  get a haircut, and hit the gym.  I promise if you take these actions you will instantly start feeling better. This won’t provide you the deep confidence you are looking for but it will provide you an immediate pick me up to start taking the necessary actions to achieve core confidence.

 

2) Push your comfort zone!

This is by far the most CRITICAL step in achieving  supreme confidence. Taking action and getting shit done is instrumental in attaining core confidence. Let your feelings guide you in the right direction.  If it makes you feel uncomfortable DO IT. The key part is taking the action regardless of the outcome. One caveat, please do this in steps.  Do not get all crazy and try to push too hard.  If you’re deathly afraid of public speaking, DON’T go out and try to give a speech in front of a 1000 people.  You’re liable to give yourself a nervous breakdown.  I promise, if you do this in your every day life you will become the master of your domain in no time.

3) Get out of your head!

Okay, I’m sure everyone is aware that meditation is pretty bad ass. There’s boat loads of studies showing the benefits of meditation. Now, do I personally meditate for extended periods of time,  no.  Meditation equals nap time for me.  What I found to be more effective is to go into my breath, even if only a for a few seconds, periodically through out the day.  You can find plenty of YouTube videos on how to do this but simply put, you focus your attention on your breathing.  Also, simultaneously, look around yourself and take in the natural beauty of the world.  Many times people are so engrossed in their daily routines they don’t take the time to enjoy the beauty of the world we live in.

Another great way to get out of  your head, is to dance. Shake that sweet ass into pure enlightenment. 🙂 Any other similar activity that fully engrosses you will work also.

4) Key Mindsets

Affirmations, for me, don’t work. Saying something in your mind over and over is not going to magically make your mind believe it’s true but taking action and proving it to yourself will.  But I do think a few key mindsets will help guide you as you continue your journey to profound confidence.

  1. Don’t care what other people think about you
    1. This one is fairly self explanatory. You can’t please everyone, so don’t waste your time trying.
  2. Self Amusement
    1. The world is a crazy and bizarre place. There’s absolutely no way you can control it, so don’t bother. The better way is to sit back  and enjoy the madness.
  3. Be Grateful
    1. stop focusing on what you don’t have and be happy with what you do have. Everyone wants the latest and greatest, as if that is somehow going to make you whole. Take time each day and be grateful for the simple things in life.

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5) Final Thoughts

Wash, rinse, repeat! This isn’t something you do once and you’re self assured the rest of your life.  This is an on-going process. Through out your life there are going to be many ups and downs.  The above will only help you manage the highs and the lows effectively.

If you would like to check out more information on these subjects, check out these books:

Think and Grow Rich – Napoleon Hill

The Fountainhead – Ayn Rand

The Power of Now – Eckhart Tolle

How to win friends and influence people – Dale Carnegie

Awaken the Giant Within – Tony Robbins

Radical Honesty – Brad Blanton

Leave comments. Let me know what you think.  Good, bad,  or indifferent.

Morning Routine Checklist: 7 killer activities to start your day

The Best Brewery List “Near Me”

Sound the alarms! It’s time to sit back in your favorite lazy boy, hopefully with a delicious craft beer, and read the most amazing list of craft breweries “near me”. I know there are hundreds of breweries in Michigan and of course the BIG GUYS but this list is going to focus on breweries in my neck of the woods.

5)  The Drafting Table

This brewery is new and may not have the clout many other breweries do but I absolutely love this place. It may be the fact it’s a couple of miles from my house and I’ve been waiting for a brewery to open near me FOREVER but regardless they have pretty amazing beers. From the DIPA to the rezolute IPA they have strong hoppy flavors with crisp delicious undertones. Not to be a total IPA snob but they also have other amazing offers such as the “The Monk Crusher”, a fantastic tripel, or the banging Imperial Stout, “Only Fools Russian”. Which I believe is a fairly clever play on words from the lyrics by UB40, “Fools Rush In”.

Yelp Elite Tip: They just added a patio, why not sit at it.

Check out the full review here. Yelp Review – Drafting Table

4) River Rouge Brewing Company

This place is tiny. I mean literally NANO, which I understand means small as shit. All I have to say to the ladies is MANGO EXPLOSION BEER! This stuff is women’s cat nip. But that’s not the only good beer. Ale Yes! is their imperial IPA which, as Jimmy Walker would say, is DYN-O-MITE!

Also, if  you get bored you can walk across the street to Motor City Gas and try some locally distilled whiskey. That’s what I would call a twofer. SHABANG!

Yelp Elite – They have all you can eat pretzels. Have some.

3) Batch Brewing Company

Located in Detroit, it’s the new guy on the block. It may be the new kid but it’s already ready to donkey punch Buddy Levell’s lights out in the parking lot at three o’clock sharp.  The beers are awesome and the location is great. Admittedly I am a bit partial to Detroit these days, with its recent resurgence. But regardless…  the beer is awesome, the atmosphere is great, and the regulars are super cool.

Yelp Elite Tip – The patio gets filled up pretty quick, so arrive early and stake your claim.

2) Witches Hat

God I used to love stumbling home from here when I lived in South Lyon. The beer is just delicious. And I’m not talking about one type, I mean literally ALL the beer is delicious. The train hopper is a staple, the Big Doedish is powerful, and the Night Fury is HEAVY, and I mean the Back to the Future type of heavy like super deep and delicious.

Yelp Elite – They have a bevy of board games. Past the time by playing one. I will dominate you at Battleship.

1) Kuhnhenn

The name is admittedly crazy. It took me nearly 2 years to correctly spell it. But the #1 pick isn’t being judged purely by its name. No, it has many other attributes that put it at the top of my list. For starters, the DRIPA – enough said. Hands down one of the best double IPAs out there. Taste, awesome. Mouth feel, amazing. Appearance, awe-inspiring. It checks all the boxes and then some. The DRIPA may be the big dipper but the Creme Brule Stout plays the little dipper magnificently. So god damn yummy. I know Kuhnhenns can be considered a big guy, especially since the 2nd location has opened and it is absolutely packed all the time. But due to the limited distribution I still consider it a bit of an unknown. Plus the original location is such an immaculate representation of a classic corner bar it’s hard not to love its charm.

BTW If anyone reading this can score a BB4D please hook me up. I’ve been trying to get my hands on one for years.

Yelp Elite Tip – It gets wildly busy at the original location on the weekends, so go on a weekday, Mon-Wed.

*I did a little research on google.com and found out that Kuhnhenn is the owner’s last name.

If you want to check out more of my reviews, check me out on Yelp. The link is below. Just click.

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